My brothers’ attorney sent me an “Agreement” to sign, which would basically subjugate me into a role of pathetic sort of criminal and make my brothers feel like Big Strong Men, ha ha. Their attorney did not ask if she could contact me via email, she just did it; when I objected, the Guardian Ad Litem Carol, tells me that my email is “social media.” LOL And basically, that I have no rights, I am bad, and just sign it, for your parents’ sake… I refuse to sign it, for my parents’ sake! All this, if you haven’t been following my Tail of Woah, is about my brothers trying to force me out of pretty much anything to do with the care of my vnerable, vulnerable, incompetent (which means no rights no mo) parents… So, as I told Carol, I’m posting this response on my page. I invite you to EMAIL HER and TELL HER WHAT YOU THINK OF MY CHARACTER.
Carol J. Williams —— cjwkgo@gmail.com
Guardian Ad Litem, Kitsap County Superior Court/Court Visitor
Carol’s email to me this morning:
Jaan, No one needs your permission to message you on email — it is “social media,” meaning public, not private. You can block senders but I don’t recommend that at this juncture when communication is necessary among your family members. We sent you the proposed agreement to sign to prevent you and your siblings from exposing your parents to the contentious and upsetting relationships among you three. I think it is a workable arrangement that allows your parents to be together and in touch with you despite the restrictions on your access to other venues where you can see them together. Please sign this interim agreement so we can move a step ahead in resolving their separation. If you refuse to agree to this arrangement you will not be able to visit them in their home. If you have questions you want to discuss, let’s talk about them when we are all together in the parking lot or lobby of The Doctor’s Clinic on Tuesday. Thank you for your cooperation on this effort to bring your parents home. Best, CJ
Carol, et al.:
You are wrong. About pretty much everything.
My E-mail is not "social media." I actually LAUGHED OUT LOUD at that. But since that is what you are telling me, then you won't mind that I post your email on my blog page, so that I can invite people to fill you in on my character-- You seem to need help figuring that out without a lot of help from my brothers. I will do that today.
Feel free to use “Social Media” to let Carol know what you feel about me:
cjwkgo@gmail.com
Hmmm, yes, "Patriot" Act-- Remember that? If you understand Marbury v. Madison, you will also understand that that Act is null and void on its face. Your overreach may be sanctioned and even encouraged by the fascists now running roughshod over this state, and the Constitution itself, but that doesn't mean I have to comply. My father (or mother) doesn't have to be treated as a child, either, and amazingly enough, my father DOES have rights, whether YOU acknowledge them or not. UNALIENABLE.
UN ALIEN ABLE. Do you really want to argue about the Constitution?
This is so TYPICAL of my brother John, to call in the "authorities" because he's basically a coward and a fool who thinks his lies and charm will convince everyone (He’s right, to some degree!). He is so angry, for MOST OF MY LIFE, that a mere WOMAN stands up to him and threatens his "power." Obviously, he doesn't have any power, or we wouldn't be having this discussion. But sooner or later, the truth will out.
Feel free to use “Social Media” to let Carol know what you feel about me:
cjwkgo@gmail.com
John can bluster and lie all he wants, but it doesn't make it TRUE. Being handsome and charming works on some people, until they experience his callous duplicity. He doesn't fool me. And he knows that he can wind up Marc like a toy monkey, and so, here we are. I forgive them, these brothers of mine, because they really don't know what they're doing, they're too full of fear and self-absorption. But that doesn't mean I'm going to submit to their attempts to beat me down. I shall NEVER be beaten down.
I am aware that you/the county/the state, whatever, can force things to happen whether they are RIGHT or not, but that doesn't make you innocent of wrong, or even legal, regardless of your "power." All around us these days, the fascism is creeping in... Do you not see it? Are you not part of it?
Feel free to use “Social Media” to let Carol know what you feel about me:
cjwkgo@gmail.com
>>Little boys who feel "inferior" and don't like their sister being "superior," eh, John? A GIRL, imagine that! Yeah, and there's nothing you can do to stop me from knowing what I know about you, or knowing the truth of the situation. How do you sleep at night?<<
It was, and is, Carol, pretty clear to me that you'd made up your mind about my character, my past, present, future, inner world, intent, worthiness generally, before you ever met me. If I'm wrong about that, show me. But how very wonderful for you that you seem to have this amazing ability... It makes your job so much easier, I'm sure! I have a word for you: Tool.
Feel free to use “Social Media” to let Carol know what you feel about me:
cjwkgo@gmail.com
Do you think you know me? And do you think you know my family, our history, our dynamics, and who and what we are, who and what my parents are, what we have gone through, done in our lives? Uh, no. Not even you have that much talent.
The sly way you served up what you thought would stun me, I suppose, in telling me I was fired for "refusing to wear a mask." You air not only your own ignorance, but also the duplicity (and ignorance) of that company for LYING to me about why I was fired. I know you won't believe me, but I was actually GLAD to be fired... it took the pressure off me for not quitting.
See, I actually do my homework... And how telling that you are still living in a burnt-down paradigm, how not surprising. You seem to be unable to even figure out how to set up a reasonable means of looking after my parents... You flail so much like John, in a hurry to "wrap it all up," while my parents are supposed to just be HAPPY with whatever you decide, regardless. Oh, wait, did you forget about how they feel, and whether that's even part of the decision?
Feel free to use “Social Media” to let Carol know what you feel about me:
cjwkgo@gmail.com
Have you even LOOKED at the documentation about this family that I have filed with APS? With DSHS? Have you spoken to the RN, Danny, or Rosie, the OT of CHI Franciscan regarding my dad's health and/or the state of care with me since mid-December? Have you ANY idea about what has gone on over the past nearly two years? Have you ANY idea of the bullying I have been through by (mostly) John and (recently) Marc? Do you imagine that perhaps John is doing his best to poison everyone against me (including Marc)?
No. You don't know, because you have already made up your mind, from the get go, I suspect, and so you think you're doing a good job. Don't break your arm patting yourself on the back, catching the Evil Sister. It's just so EASY to play this game, isn't it? Just move along, get this one dealt with, am I right? You already disliked me when we MET, and you think you can just shut me up, no?
If you knew how transparent you are, as are my brothers, you'd maybe stop and think. But seeing that would mean you'd have to actually WORK, and consider the possibility that you are WRONG (you are).
Feel free to use “Social Media” to let Carol know what you feel about me:
cjwkgo@gmail.com
My dad has flatly refused to being ordered to have a doctor's visit -- He doesn't LIKE Dr. Paik, as I told you. He is very healthy, probably because he doesn't GO to allopathic doctors (he was given statins, too), and anyway, and I've advised you of the visits from CHI-F, which you appear to have disregarded. Dad also doesn't want to be under Marc's "care." Dad doesn't like being ordered around-- You don't know my dad, even though you've spent maybe a couple of hours with him. Of course, he'd have been completely at ease, with a woman he's never met, making judgments about him, and having undue (yes, UNDUE) power over his future... Nobody likes to be shelved.
Remember that term: UNALIENABLE RIGHTS.
Feel free to use “Social Media” to let Carol know what you feel about me:
cjwkgo@gmail.com
You may have the power to UNDO what he wants and tell him he has no say in his own life, but POA or not, he has named me as his Advocate, and as long as I am ALIVE, I will be that. And I will advocate for my mother, as well. I just keep thinking: Who the hell are YOU to walk in and start telling other people what to do? The STATE? Give me a break. Especially when you haven't even done your due diligence? This ain't over. I am not "cooperating" with someone who is clearly biased and unwilling to consider my side.
I have no intention of surrendering, ever. You DON'T know me. And YOU are not the judge. NO WAY will I sign that Agreement, it is a mockery of reality and a laughable attempt to intimidate me-- and puts my parents right back in the NEGLECT and power-mongering situation that put them both in the hospital. If you think I'm going to be cowed and sad and still give my brothers the benefit of the doubt, as I did back in 2022, think again. F_ck me over once, shame on my brothers; f_ck me over twice, shame on YOU.
Cheers,
Jaan E Carter
Daughter of Marvin and Helen Carter, Polymath, BGS, EMT, Independent Researcher, Bullshit Detector. Professional: Journalist, Photographer, Musician, Artist/Cartoonist, Cook, Caregiver, Paralegal, Writer, Poet, Personal Chef/Baker, and Dog Walker (so far)
I hope I can assume you have some legal advice on your side. It seems odd to be offered to discuss these binding legal arrangements in the parking lot or the doctor’s clinic.
I wish you the best of luck, as I’m sure you know.
I have emailed as requested and forwarded a copy to your proton.me email address. I hope it helps.